I agree with cloth diapers. I couldn't afford disposables most of the time when my kids were babies and wipes were a luxury. I had to use not just cloth, I couldn't afford them. I got used tees from the tee shirt bins at thrift stores and used those. I cut up really ratty tees and used them for diaper wipes. I didn't have a washer then so wound up handwashing everything. Being low income is not an easy life but when you do cut out the high cost of disposables diapers and wipes it really does bring the cost of caring for a child down.
We did use disposables for going to doctors or shopping but that made a pack last quite a while since we used cloth at home or when we visited family etc.
In the year 2000 the Raymond-Hawkinson family was established. We bound our relationship with the purchase of land and a home. In 2003 we sacrificed what we had to try to save the lives of our beloved pets who were cruelly poisoned in their own yard by illegal area hunters. We lost our car which resulted in the loss of a job, then electricity/water and eventually our home and land.
We do not regret our decision to try to save the lives of our pets.
We discovered what our family truly wanted when we had to move out of our new house and live on the 2 acres of land we had. We learned how to build tipi's, we learned how to cook over open fire, how to use dehydrated foods, rely on the sun to warm our tipi and to heat water for bathing. We had to lug our own water so we also learned a lot about water conversation and recycling. We had no septic system to use, we had to learn safe methods of waste treatment. Had the house and land not been tied up in the same mortgage we could have let the house go without batting an eye. We had found something far more stable...but the land went with the house.
That experience while so many see it as heartbreaking really wasn't. We found that we had more when we had less. Now that we have modern housing that must be powered up and hooked up to water/sewer and we rely on grocery stores and the gas to get there...we are paying far more and have far less than what we had while relying on the earth.
Our family goal is to make our income count. If we could only get a piece of land and build unconventional shelters, grow our own much healthier food and use what nature offers to us we could be doing better in life.
We wish to build our shelter to compliment the abilities of our disabled family members and not be forced into paying expensive rents for adapted rentals or have to live with my mom the rest of my days which would include paying to have her house adapted.
If you can help us get started...we can do the rest. All we need is a piece of land in an unrestricted area.
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